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Life is a closed-loop, a cirque of beatitude and affliction. These are the main events that shape you who you are. These are the basic events the either destroys you or develops you. When we speak about beatitude, happiness, joy it’s a pat, an appreciation for what we did, for our achievement, our hard work. When we speak about affliction it’s actually karma that we did and the fruit we received. It’s for a short period but as necessary as beatitude.
When the time is of joy enjoy and be happy and also make others happy. During this time you can either be developed or destroyed. Developed means you can be prepared for the next challenge that will be thrown at you. Destroyed means this is the time when people may be filled with ‘ego’ and ‘attitude’. They may feel that I am the only person who is great and no one else is great. No one is better than me. At this time they should be I am also a great person not I am only a great person.
When the time is of sorrow you should have faith in yourself. You should trust demigods and believe that this time is transient. You should encourage yourself. The time either develops you in such a way that you become enough bold and brave to face the challenges. It either destroys you in such a way that you aren’t ready to face new challenges and might be broken down.
Actually life events either destroys you or develop you. There might be many other events that test you. When you are with your friends and you aren’t aware of their nature that might be a challenging event that brings up the times and you see yourself either destroyed or developed. Your mentors are the person that helps you to shape you. Reading something which inspired you actually helps you to shape yourself. Attending a meeting with someone with whom you feel uncomfortable actually builds you to be more good than you are. Communicating with a person who’s erudite that helps you to make headway. Going on a trip with the people who haven’t seen or meet even once develops you, shapes you. Because you get to know different things that you aren’t aware of. Family gatherings are the events that help to show yourself and shape yourself. There are many other events that shape you into who you are. These events are necessary to fortify yourself.
Remember,
If a pat is necessary for an appreciation of your achievement than a slap is also necessary to improve yourself.
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